What to Write in a Card: Engagement

Big love, without the big pressure

Engagements are full of sparkle, champagne, and slightly awkward ring selfies. They're also a beautiful reminder that love in all its joyful, messy, exciting glory is worth celebrating.

So what do you write in a card for someone who's just said “yes”? Whether it's your best friend, colleague, sibling or someone you haven't spoken to since Year 9... here are a few ways to strike the right tone.

Classic and kind

Short, sweet and goes with everything. Great if you're not super close or just want to keep it simple.

• Congratulations on your engagement! So thrilled for you both.
• Wishing you a lifetime of love, laughter and shared takeaways.
• Such wonderful news, so happy for you!
• Cheers to the beginning of your forever.
• You two were always meant to find each other.

Warm and personal

For friends, close colleagues, or people who matter to you.Let your personality show.

• I always knew this was coming and I couldn't be happier for you both!
• You make love look easy. Can't wait to celebrate you properly.
• So excited to see your next chapter unfold, together.
• Couldn't imagine a better match. You two are golden.
• What a beautiful thing to witness, your love is the real deal.

Light and playful

Keep it joyful and affectionate. These are perfect for inside jokes or cards from a group.

• Congrats! Let the Pinterest planning begin…
• You found your lobster 🦞 (Friends reference mandatory)
• Ring? Check. Fiancé(e)? Check. Eternal group chat updates? Here for it.
• Now the teamwork begins: seating charts
• So happy for you both! We'll try not to cry at the wedding, but no promises 😭

Real words, real impact

You don't need to write the next great love poem. Just share a little joy. That's what this moment is all about.